- Affectionate Caring says, “I CARE ABOUT YOU”
- Enemy: Hurt
- Vulnerable Communications say, “I TRUST YOU”
- Enemy: Fear
- Joint Accomplishment says, “I NEED YOU”
- Enemy: Self-Reliance
- Mutual Giving says, “I LOVE YOU”
- Enemy: Selfishness
*List was adapted from Intimate Encounters Workbook, Chapter 5; Relationship Press, P O Box 201808, Austin, TX